Relationship Between Two Type 2s

Two Altruists

Samwise Gamgee
Samwise Gamgee (Type 2)
Elena Gilbert
Elena Gilbert (Type 2)

Attraction

These two Type 2s are drawn to each other’s intimacy, closeness, kindness, and mutual affection.
They can shower each other with attention and love, share all their thoughts and secrets, and create a very closely bonded atmosphere in their relationship.
They admire each other’s altruism and can provide substantial mutual support.

Potential Challenges

This combination is quite rare because Type 2s love taking care of others yet find it hard to accept care themselves in the same way.
They may struggle to set boundaries and risk losing themselves in each other.
In difficult times, the relationship can become unhealthy, with one accusing the other of being too intrusive or too neglectful.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.