Attraction
The Type 4 is attracted to the Type 2’s optimism, sociability, affection, and attentiveness. They also admire Type 2’s natural ability to move things forward.
Type 2 is drawn to Type 4’s emotional depth, sensitivity, mystery, creativity, and compassion.
Both are highly romantic and can form a deeply emotional, passionate bond.
Potential Challenges
Both are very emotional and sensitive, potentially struggling to express their needs.
Type 2 may see Type 4 as too depressed, self-centered, passive, and selfish.
Type 4 may see Type 2 as intrusive, smothering, manipulative, and clingy.
Type 4 may feel disappointed if they perceive Type 2’s flattery as manipulative attempts to be loved, considering it superficial.
The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.