Relationship between type 4 and type 3

The artist and the chameleon

Éponine (Les Misérables)
Jay Gatsby (The Great Gatsby)

Attraction

This couple can complement each other very well if they are both able to manage their compulsions.
4 is attracted to 3’s self-confidence, charisma, sociability, energy, diplomacy and winning personality.
3 is attracted to 4’s sensitivity, sentimental depth, authenticity, mysteriousness and romanticism.
4 can help 3 pay more attention to the sentimental feelings that he represses, while 3 can help 4 be more organised in his projects to get closer to his dreams.

Points where to be careful

4 is sensitive, moody, needs closeness and can really struggle with the neglect that 3 can show to their relationship while he concentrates on his professional goals.
4 can feel that 3 is too concerned with his image and his career, runs away from his feelings and is too superficial.
3 can feel that 4 is too moody, attention-seeking, passive, unproductive and inefficient.