Relationship Between Two Type 7s

Two Epicureans

Phoebe Buffay
Phoebe Buffay (Type 7)
The Joker
The Joker (Type 7)

Attraction

This is the ultimate fun relationship. Both Type 7s are delighted to have found an ideal playmate in each other for life’s adventures.
They are both full of optimism, curiosity, energy, and spontaneity.
Each has an active, agile mind, appreciates that they are both multi-talented, and never bored.
They are both highly independent but enjoy having fun together.
They are also idealists who want to contribute positively to the world.

Potential Challenges

They may see each other as too selfish, unreliable, careless, self-centered, and arrogant.
Both avoid negative feelings and may fail to address relationship issues, escaping into other activities instead.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.