Attraction
This is a highly complementary relationship.
Type 7 is attracted to Type 9’s tolerance, support, generosity, adaptability, stability, and ability to listen.
Type 9 is drawn to Type 7’s optimism, playfulness, energy, enthusiasm, and adventurous spirit.
Type 9 appreciates that Type 7 takes the initiative, sparing them the struggle of making decisions. Type 7 loves that Type 9 is always willing to follow them on their adventures.
Both are open-minded, curious, sociable, friendly, idealistic, romantic, and sensual.
They dislike conflict, focus on the positive aspects of life, get along very well, and can be truly happy together.
Potential Challenges
Because both avoid conflict, they may neglect important issues in their relationship.
Type 9 may see Type 7 as too unpredictable, inconsistent, opportunistic, impatient, and self-centered.
Type 7 may see Type 9 as too indecisive, passive, distracted, lacking initiative, boring, and stubborn.
When Type 7 grows impatient, they can become offensive, critical, and belittling, which only heightens Type 9’s passive-aggressive state, as they hate feeling pressured.
The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.