Relationship Between Two Type 1s

Two Ethics

Hermione Granger
Hermione Granger (Type 1)
Mr. Spock
Mr. Spock (Type 1)

Attraction

These two Type 1 personalities are attracted to each other’s values, principles, sense of responsibility, ideals, loyalty, and integrity. They both share a strong desire to improve themselves and the world around them. They are aligned in their missions and beliefs, making them feel mutually understood. They respect each other’s high standards and offer mutual advice for growth.
They solve any issues that may arise between them logically, rationally, and maturely. They trust each other, knowing they can rely on one another to fulfill their responsibilities.

Potential Challenges

Type 1s can be highly judgmental and critical because they sometimes feel responsible for everything around them, which can make them quite overbearing. If one partner becomes overly critical, the other may bottle up their irritation until it can no longer be contained. They might also struggle to agree if they hold differing viewpoints. Since Type 1s can be stubborn in believing their perspective is correct, this can lead to deadlock.
As they are both hardworking and often disregard their own needs, they may spend too much time on professional activities, leaving insufficient time for the relationship.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.