Attraction
This pairing is quite complementary.
The Type 1 is attracted to the generosity, warmth, and attentiveness of the Type 2. He is charmed by Type 2’s social skills, good humor, zest for life, sentimentality, and big heart.
Type 2 is drawn to Type 1’s integrity, honesty, conscientiousness, rigor, reliability, and self-control.
Type 2 senses Type 1’s inner need (often hidden) for more enjoyment in life and may feel inspired to help.
Type 1 appreciates having someone who can soften him and help expand his social life, while Type 2 values the security and emotional stability that Type 1 provides.
They admire each other’s desire to help others and their sense of responsibility. They share a common wish: to do good in the world.
Potential Challenges
Type 2 may feel neglected if Type 1 is too absorbed in work and doesn’t allocate enough time to the relationship.
Type 2 may sometimes perceive Type 1 as too critical, emotionally closed-off, inflexible, incapable of relaxing, and too easily annoyed.
Type 1 may sometimes view Type 2 as too intrusive, possessive, emotionally demanding, and manipulative.
The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.