Relationship Between Type 1 and Type 5

The Ethic and the Observer

Hermione Granger
Hermione Granger (Type 1)
Sherlock Holmes
Sherlock Holmes (Type 5)

Attraction

These two types get along well because they are both independent and value logic and reason.
The Type 1 admires the intellectual insight and theoretical reasoning of the Type 5, as well as their calming presence.
Type 5 esteems Type 1’s rationality, organization, perfectionism, and discipline.
Both are mentally oriented but think differently, creating long, stimulating debates they both enjoy.
They respect each other’s personal space and do not openly express affection, yet they feel it indirectly.

Potential Challenges

Type 5 is more self-focused, while Type 1 is more others-focused, potentially causing conflicts of interest.
Although Type 1 is independent, Type 5 requires even more personal space, which can make Type 1 anxious.
Since neither is comfortable with emotions, the relationship may become cold and distant during emotional conflicts, prompting both to escape into work.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.