Relationship between type 4 and type 6

The artist and the loyal

Éponine (Les Misérables)
Bilbo Baggins (The Hobbit)


4 is attracted to 6’s generosity, playfulness, perceptiveness, empathy and support.
6 is attracted to 4’s creativity, passion, humour, authenticity and mysteriousness.
Both are deeply emotional, empathetic, can be very anxious, fear abandonment and mutually help each other feel safe.
They are able to form a stable relationship with a strong emotional connection, a deep, mutual understanding and strong mutual support.

Points where to be careful

Both are anxious, and can have a lot of difficulty reassuring each other if they are both experiencing emotional difficulties at the same time.
6 can sometimes perceive 4 as being too unpredictable, dramatic, attention-seeking, selfish and difficult to please.
4 can perceive 6 as being too wary, cynical, accusatory, pessimistic, sceptical and too concerned about safety.
4 aspires towards change and adventure, while 6 can have difficulty changing his habits.