Relationship Between Two Type 8s

Two Leaders

Tommy Shelby
Tommy Shelby (Type 8)
Katherine Pierce
Katherine Pierce (Type 8)

Attraction

These two Type 8s are attracted by their independence, honesty, energy, intensity, resourcefulness, reliability, honor, and camaraderie.
Both highly value loyalty and can be very faithful, protective, and loving toward each other.
Once trust is established, they can be very relaxed together and support one another’s goals.

Potential Challenges

Type 8s are not the easiest in relationships, especially when matched. Both want control and fear being controlled.
They will test each other before trusting and letting their guard down.
They may see each other as too dominating, suspicious, insensitive, and excessive.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.