Relationship Between Type 1 and Type 8

The Ethic and the Leader

Hermione Granger
Hermione Granger (Type 1)
Tommy Shelby
Tommy Shelby (Type 8)

Attraction

These two types share many similarities. Both are quite active, hold strong principles, and are determined, each wanting to make the world fairer.
The Type 1 is impressed by the Type 8’s self-confidence, intense passion, and ability to let go at will.
Type 8 respects Type 1’s integrity, honesty, reliability, and strong convictions.
Both are strong-willed, more mentally oriented than emotional, which can result in stimulating debates. While they may show less overt emotional expression, they still feel it indirectly.

Potential Challenges

Type 8 may see Type 1 as too inwardly focused, moralistic, and rigid, feeling that Type 1 tries too hard to restrain or limit them.
Type 1 may find Type 8 too bold, aggressive, authoritarian, impulsive, insensitive, and less concerned about others’ well-being.
Both are independent. However, Type 8 might want more closeness or fusion, while Type 1 struggles to fully open up.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.