Relationship Between Type 7 and Type 1

The Epicurean and the Ethic

Phoebe Buffay
Phoebe Buffay (Type 7)
Mr. Spock
Mr. Spock (Type 1)

Attraction

The Type 1 and the Type 7 complement each other in many ways.
Type 1 is drawn to Type 7’s cheerfulness, enthusiasm, optimism, adaptability, energy, curiosity, love of discovery, and sense of fun.
Type 7 admires Type 1’s self-control, conscientiousness, integrity, reliability, perfectionism, desire to improve their environment, responsibility, and organization.
Type 7 helps Type 1 relax and be more spontaneous, while Type 1 helps Type 7 focus on their projects.

Potential Challenges

Type 7 generally prefers improvisation, while Type 1 prefers careful planning, which can cause conflicts of interest.
Type 1 may struggle with Type 7’s behavior when it appears undisciplined, self-centered, and easily distracted.
Type 1 can be upset if Type 7 ignores their plans for something more fun.
Type 7 may feel too controlled by Type 1 and become frustrated.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.