Relationship Between Type 6 and Type 3

The Loyalist and the Chameleon

Katniss Everdeen
Katniss Everdeen (Type 6)
Jay Gatsby
Jay Gatsby (Type 3)

Attraction

The Type 3 is drawn to the Type 6’s attentiveness, generosity, support, sensitivity, humor, and sincerity.
Type 6 admires Type 3’s self-confidence, charm, enthusiasm, charisma, and determination.
Type 3 can feel genuinely loved by Type 6 for who they are, not just for their successes, and appreciates the constructive advice Type 6 offers.
Type 3 can help and motivate Type 6 to set goals and take steps to achieve them.

Potential Challenges

Type 3 may see Type 6 as overly suspicious, anxious, pessimistic, cautious, and skeptical, viewing their prudence as a hindrance to ambition.
If Type 3 ignores Type 6’s warnings, Type 6 can become even more anxious, and Type 3 may not take time to reassure them.
Type 6 may see Type 3 as too impatient, boastful, indifferent, inattentive, distant, and possibly dishonest.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.