Relationship Between Type 7 and Type 6

The Epicurean and the Loyalist

Phoebe Buffay
Phoebe Buffay (Type 7)
Bilbo Baggins
Bilbo Baggins (Type 6)

Attraction

The Type 6 is attracted to the Type 7’s optimism, enthusiasm, playfulness, fun, and zest for life.
Type 7 admires Type 6’s generosity, commitment, cleverness, curiosity, and loyalty.
Type 7 helps Type 6 become more adventurous, spontaneous, and overcome fears, while Type 6 helps Type 7 be more conscientious, responsible, and forward-thinking.
Both enjoy humor, curiosity, sociability, and stimulating conversations.
If well-managed, this pairing can be very complementary.

Potential Challenges

Type 6 seeks more commitment, while Type 7 values independence and freedom.
Type 6 may see Type 7 as selfish, impatient, irresponsible, unreliable, and arrogant.
Type 7 may view Type 6 as too fearful, negative, suspicious, and anxious.

Resolution of Challenges

The "potential challenges" arise in an Enneagram-type couple primarily when they are not in harmony with themselves. With communication, each person's investment in the relationship, and mutual understanding, these challenges can certainly be avoided and resolved.